Life in a Venti Cup. Because life is too short to think small.

February 07, 2012

Pencil Me In

I could never understand the girls who grumbled and griped about Valentine's Day. As they day approached they grew more bitter. Truth is, these were pessimestic people to begin with... and the impending day of romance was just one more excuse to draw attention to their distaste for life in general.

The thing is, romance is a lot like joy and happiness. It's your responsibility - not that of someone else to manifest this in your life. It's something you experience, not something someone does for you. Frankly, some of my best Valentine's Day were those I enjoyed as a single girl. It's a day when you can add a bit more lip gloss, higher heels, have a bit more of a spring in your step, wear pink without irony and - yes, even buy yourself a massive bouquet of your favorite Stargazer lilies.

Being happy and embracing your femininity is your responsibility. Waiting on some white knight to "rescue" you is putting undue responsibility on someone else. Joy and satisfaction comes from within. And how could you be anything less than happy in a deliciously pink pencil skirt?.

So I say, single or not, treat yourself to something fun this holiday. Maybe it's a tube of gorgeous gloss. A pedicure. Maybe it's a handbag you've been coveting. Maybe it's dinner and drinks with the girls... maybe it's just some time out for yoga. Whatever it is, realize that the onus is on you to manifest your own happiness today and every day in life. Not that of Mr. Right.

Frankly, nothing is more appealing to a man than a confident, happy, self-satisfied woman. So be that woman. And in festive pink with a broad smile on your glowing face, you'll be hard to miss and impossible to resist.

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January 10, 2012

So Hard to Choos

I own but one singular pair of ballet flats. They are a gorgeous pair of metallic snakeskin Revas, but I (not so) secretly loathe them. They remain in my closet rarely worn. I mean, doesn't the very phrase "dressed up" imply that one should be... elevated? So it's with great surprise that these hot pink ballet flats by (unlikely source) Jimmy Choo appeal to me.

The immediate draw is the noticeable improvement to the sole. I see traction there! In the Tory Burch flats you're afraid of stepping on the tiniest of crumbs for fear you'll feel it through the bottom of the shoe (how princess and the pea of me, right?). But these patent beauties have just enough verve to (maybe, almost, sort of) compensate for the lack of lift.

Between the gold-tipped bow tied at the toe to the dazzling little plaque at the heel, I'm reading "glamour meets all-day-walking comfort" from front to back. And just look at that gold interior? King Midas would be so proud.

Although I won't admit it often, a comfortable pair of flats is exactly what I'll need at High Point this year. Unfortunately I know myself well enough to admit that even if I get these, they'll sit in my bag in the hotel as I trounce around in heels. What can I say, habits like heels are hard to kick.

In the meantime I'll keep staring at these colorful little creations from Jimmy Choo, in all their Skittles-hued glory. Who knows... I might even be bold enough to brave the world in flats. Not likely... but maybe.

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December 15, 2011

ZaZa Zoom

We've been plotting and planning a quick trip to Houston. Since we'll likely only be there one or two nights it makes sense to indulge and have an "experience" versus just a stay at a hotel. We've been looking at the Four Seasons and other sure bets... but the creative cutie in me always seeks the thrill of the boutique experience.

As luck would have it, Houston has their own Hotel ZaZa. We have one here in Dallas too, and if the scene there is any indication the Houston outpost is likely to be a local hotspot.

What's it like? According to Jetsetter, the building in which the hotel is housed was originally built in 1926. This doesn't translate to stodgy, though. The historic hotel is decked out with avant-garde elements, sleek furnishings and an eclectic visual mix. While there are classic references to the past (think gilded mirrors and glass chandeliers), this upbeat hotel is very future focused.

From what I can glean, during warmer months the pool and surrounding terrace are a buzz with singles looking to mix. Since we'll be venturing down during December with toddler in tow it's probably for the best we're missing out on all the action. Fortunately we'll still enjoy the Italian linens in the suites, Monarch restaurant and the spa. Ahh, the joys of plush travel!

Why are we Houston bound? Proximity aside (it's a quick three hour trip away), we love our neighboring city to the south. This particular trip is important for two reasons... first: the Mr. has business to handle. That should only take about a day. I on the other hand, have shopping to do. Houston now boasts one of the only two RH Baby & Child locations in existence (yay, Texas!), and I need to go see furniture and bedding in person before making purchases. Business and pleasure, a nice mix.

If you've been to Houston's ZaZa, I'd love your input!

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September 21, 2011

Boutique of the Week: Plum Pretty Sugar

Of all the worldly advancements, often the best life improvements are the most basic. A new category of apparel has appeared on the market. Loungerie. It straddles the line between lingerie and loungewear and couldn't be more perfect for today's modern girl. Pretty patterns, breathable fabrics, delicate silhouettes that offer coverage and comfort.

One of the masters of this craft is Plum Pretty Sugar. Like the pretty florals themselves, the brand is based in sunny California. To me, this is evident in the lightness and airiness of the designs. Whisper-weight cottons and easy silhouettes. It's exactly what any girl wants to wear when she's at home relaxing but still wants to feel pretty and feminine.

I've been following Nina on twitter for ages. She has a fabulous blog and an eye for beautiful things. Those inspirations are easy to find in her collections. There's a category for brides and bridesmaids (genius, as you need something pretty to wear while getting ready for the big event), a line of linens for the home (wise use of those impossibly soft fabrics) and a beautiful selection of headbands. It's all just so well thought out.

So when you find yourself unwinding this weekend, consider your choice of outfit. Are you maximizing the opportunity to feel pretty and beautiful while still enjoying the comforts of home? Why not slip into something a little more fabulous. I assure you... you're worth it.

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September 19, 2011

Scheduled: Monday Relaxation

My life is presently dominated by my big "to do" list. So much so that I'm now scheduling in a bit of relaxation amidst the work. A massage and pedicure on a Monday morning, you say? You bet. I've been working weekends, mornings, nights and in my sleep (what little sleep there is). So you bet your pretty pedicured feet I've book a Monday morning "me" session.

Admittedly, this one is in the name of blogging and business... so you might say I'm still being productive. In this case, I'm visiting a spa in Dallas for SpaWeek. A Better Body, The Spa at II Creeks has invited me to sample their 75 Minute Soothing Hot Stone Pedicure following a 50 Min II Creeks Signature Massage. I said yes to both faster than I could place my standing Starbucks order.

If you haven't SpaWeek'd before, you are really missing out. Your areas top salons and day spas offer new or signature services at ridiculously low prices. Why? To get you to try them out and spread the word.

My mother rightly pointed out that American women tend to think of spa services as extras and indulgences. If you've traveled abroad, you've no doubt noticed that in other countries both women and men regularly partake in body treatments, facials and other restoring services. It's called caring for yourself, and we should certainly incorporate more self-care into our over-scheduled lives. But for most of us, it is seen as an extra and a bit self serving. May I ask.... what's wrong with doing something nice for yourself? Especially if the result is renewed energy, restored beauty and a better frame of mind? We could learn a little from our European friends.

So today I've booked a self imposed "ringer off & email doesn't exist" portion of my morning. The little one is at school. The husband is at the office. The timing couldn't be better, I just wrapped up a massive project and very much deserve this chill session. I'll even be able to really relax, as there are no pending due dates for others, only things I've manufactured on my own for my to-do list. And yes, I'll be sure to share the details on this spa once I wake up from my zen coma.

Do yourself a favor: explore the spas and salons in your area that are participating in Spa Week. You'll discover guilt free prices for fantastic services.

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September 06, 2011

Falling for Fall

Did it happen for you yesterday? We woke up in Dallas to fall. Overnight it dipped from 100 down to gusty and slightly cool. My morning walk required a long sleeved shirt and scarf! I'd never have predicted it would do from one extreme to the next overnight. And may I say how happy it made me? The idea of wearing sleeves (imagine that?!) and boots and jeans sounds absolutely dreamy to me. Let's just say it's been a long hot summer and this is most certainly the payoff we've all been waiting for.

We spent the better part of the day out and about. We dined on outdoor patios, played at parks, took in museums and opened up the sunroof. Very basic, but after hiding indoors during 100+ degree days for so long it was a welcome reprieve.

Fall: I love you and I've missed you. Let's ring in the season fashionably!

Dresses and looks above from (you guessed it!) one of my absolute favorite brands, Isabella Oliver. Shop their new arrivals today!

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August 29, 2011

The Ultimate Backsplash

Do I have your permission to faint from design overload? This ogee backsplash is beyond gorgeous. Wow! According to the sourcing info on TraditionalHome.com, it is the “Treble”/Bourbon Street tile in Caramel from Artistic Tile's Jazz Glass Collection. Look how gorgeous it it against that copper faucet and the remarkable countertop. I'm bookmarking this for my next kitchen. I'd love this with white cabinets and dreamy counters. Okay... enough typing. I'm going to bliss out and imagine the rest of this room. Ciao!

Seen on Traditional Home

Note: when I looked at the Artistic Tile site it did not appear that this was the Treble tile. Seems credits were wrong on this image. If you're familiar with the tile, please do pass along the name so I can source it. Thank you!

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July 25, 2011

Today's Port of Call: Rangali Island, Maldives

Glass floored spa, anyone? I thought so. Imagine a retreat so tranquil and relaxing that you never even think to put shoes on your feet. Days lounging staring at the azure Indian Ocean. Nights spent enjoying fine dining by candlelight at the unique Athaa undersea restaurant - one of seven world-class restaurants on the property.

The Maldives are actually a chain of islands in the Indian Ocean, the highest point of which is a scant 8 feet. Imagine staring for hours at sea level, marveling at the wonder of this naturally gorgeous location. This vacation paradise, the Conrad Maldives Rangali Island Hotel, occupies two of those islands, and is connected by an illuminated bridge.

For those of us with little ones, this deluxe tropical retreat does allow children. (My aunt and uncle have visited islands in the topics before that don't allow children.. so be sure to check when making plans.) Not only are they allowed, they have a kids club to keep them engaged and make the trip as memorable for them as possible.

Sublime relaxation and fun for the whole family. If you're looking for heaven on earth disconnected from your many devices and daily responsibilities, this is surely the spot.

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Live Boldly

You know that wise question, "What would you do if you knew you could not fail?" Try to live that way this month. Fearless, limitless, undaunted by doubt. Life is exceedingly short. If you don't rise up to star in your own life story, someone else will. Seize this life. It's yours.

The result? Happiness. Success. Satisfaction and an improved sense of self. There is no such thing as failure. There are only different paths to your own success. So go ahead... live a little.

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July 22, 2011

My Happy Place: Roma!

It's been an interesting summer filled with twists and turns at every corner. Some pleasant, some not. When I need to focus my mind on positive things I go to my happy place. No, not the upholstered seating at my local Jimmy Choo boutique (although that's nice too). I go to Rome. Roma! My absolute favorite place.

Rome is a city as deeply connected to its past as it is the future. Modern citizens zip around with the latest fashions and smartphones on chic Vespas as they pass ancient ruins lining centuries old cobblestone streets. It is a feast for the senses and my Mecca, if you will.

As an art history addict and an avid photographer, this city offers more than can be consumed in a short period of time. Add to that, fast fashion, well heeled people from all over the globe and grand things (both old and new) around every corner, and you've created the ultimate destination for a girl like me. The Chanel boutique at the base of the Spanish Steps flanking the world famous Berninin fountain sums up why I love this great European destination: the best life has to offer, both old and new. With breathtaking views at every corner.

After our first time in Rome, we found ourselves to enchanted that we booked a return trip not quite 12 months later. That time we lingered in the region for several week, taking in all that Italy had to offer. Even after weeks in a rented Roman apartment, my thirst for the area was not quenched. I eagerly await our return to this great, majestic city.

Fortunately, Tablet hotels wants to award a winner (me, please!) a five night all expenses paid trip to my favorite city and will enjoy the lovely Hotel Capo d'Africa. The historic building was once a school. Now all they teach is the art of leisure and luxury. The rooftop terrace is not to be missed, offering panoramic views of The Colosseum and all that Roma has to offer. The attentive staff will have you forgetting your name and your place or origin. And true to the rest of the city's study in contrasts, accommodations are as modern as one could hope for despite the building's antiquated facade.

Seeking your own Roman Holiday? Enter to win.

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July 14, 2011

Dream Destination: Cap Estel

If you've not yet been to the Cote D'Azur, you absolutely must discover this posh region for yourself. Lush scenery, pristine beaches and some of the world's most wealthy, beautiful people roaming the streets. It is absolute heaven on earth. Add to that the perfectly mild climate of the Mediterranean and the effortless upscale vibe and you may soon be asking yourself why you don't live here year round. But unless you're the Princess of Monaco (let me pause on that note to fantasize... 3...2...1...) you'll need to go home periodically to handle that pesky citizenship issue.

But back to the photos above of this incredible hotel. Cap Estel has been a fixture on the French Riviera since the 1950's. A private hideaway located between Nice and Monte Carlo, the luxury hotel has played host to such celebrities as Catherine Deneuve and the Beatles - not to mention certain royal family members from distant lands that choose not to be mentioned by name. After all... this is a discreet boutique hotel good at keeping private matters private.

My suggestion? Treat yourself for the luxuriously appointed 5000 square foot suite. It comes complete with complimentary champagne, expansive marble floors and features breathtaking views of the Mediterranean - a sight you'll want to behold from your private terrace. Go ahead... live the life of luxury you deserve. And throw a few chips on the table for me while you're there.

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July 13, 2011

Oman, Oman, Oman

There are places you travel to... and then there are destinations that transport you. The Chedi Muscat in Oman is surely the latter. You can certainly unwind here, in one of two incredible pools - one of which is reserved for adults only (a blessing if you've ever sought to find tranquility with children running unattended nearby).

Thanks to the intense heat you may even wish to lounge in a cabana all day enjoying massages and indulge in their premier tennis courts at night, when savvy guests choose to fit in a game by moonlight. Book with a Visa and receive VIP status, best available rate, free room upgrade upon check-in as well as free valet parking (not that you'll need it since you're likely being chauffeured from the airport by a private Mercedes sedan) and a host of other perks.

Yes, the Chedi is calling my name. A little East meets West sounds good right now.

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July 10, 2011

Limoncelli, Please

If you've read for any length of time, you know that no country or location holds power over me the way that Italy's Amalfi Coast. If one an have an Italian soul, I certainly do. When I win the lottery you'll surely see me skipping down the tarmac on my private jet, family arm in arm, on our way to what I consider the most incredible place on earth.

For those of you just looking for a vacation spot, consider Positano's Il San Pietro di Positano. Named for the man who built this dreamy establishment, this luxury boutique hotel stands proudly on the rocky cliffs overlooking nearby Capri.

As you lounge by the panoramic pool sipping Limoncello distilled from locally grown Sfusato Amalfitano lemons and dream loftier thoughts under the glistening Mediterranean sun, take a moment to count your blessings.

This tiny jewel of a hotel boasts a Michelin Starred restaurant and an elevator that will take you straight down to the beach below. As far as I can tell, you have no need to venture far beyond the grounds or the nearby beach. It is, after all, a Condé Nast Traveler Gold List winner from 2011 as well as one of Travel + Leisure's 500 World's Best Hotels winner from 2009 & 2011. Enough said.

If you notice the girl smiling broadly behind her oversized Tom Ford glasses, that's me enjoying my sweet, sweet life. See you there!

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July 01, 2011

Globetrotting: Jaipur

Inspired by Nathan's fete this week on Million Dollar Decorators, I ventured over to see what luxe accommodations Jaipur had to offer. The Oberoi Rajvilas was an instant favorite due to the gorgeous architectural details and undeniably serene vibe. Yoga session near an ancient Shiva temple? Don't mind if I do. I suspect the rose-colored sunsets and authentic Indian cuisine would be enough to replenish my energy for a late night swim in a private pool under the stars.
Although once I recover from jet lag I'll be transfering to the more swanky Raj Palace. Just one look at this rooftop tent and I'm sure you'll see why.

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June 29, 2011

Made in the Shade

Right now this busy mama is craving a nap in this plush, covered outdoor Bali daybed from Tuuci. I'm loving the semi-private retreat and the opportunity to shield myself from the midday sun. Have I mentioned it's 100 degrees here in the shade?

Doesn't it look like a dreamy place to curl up with a good novel and a dark pair of sunnies? Or laze about on your stomach sipping an icy beverage while flipping through the latest round of magazines? Bolsters galore (my weakness), this girl is in high heaven.

Waiter and palm waving attendants not included, sadly. You'll have to provide your own servants.

{Images via Tucci.com}

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June 23, 2011

Room Service

If you've spent any time in the Greek Isles dotting the Aegean Sea you'll agree that most of the interior design is similar. Breezy sheers, minimalist furnishings and a very white, white, white color palette. Honestly, I get it. The point of the journey is the spectacular view. And one of the thrills of travel abroad is the "sense of place" you get. Rome has its unique architecture, Venice has canals, Barcelona has its Gaudi-rich city vibe. The Greek Isles are recognizable for their whitewashed buildings climbing up steep hills with splashes of cobalt blue roofs peppering the landscape. If you fell from heaven into Santorini you'd likely know it when you opened your eyes. It's part of the charm.

This little jewel of a hotel, however, didn't get the memo on about bleached white sheets and cotton canvas chairs. Oh no. In fact, the Elounda Gulf Villas & Suites in Crete is unabashedly flamboyant in its use of color and opulence. One look at those suites and I am absolutely sold. Ivory bedding, beautifully upholstered furnishings and a rather luxe atmosphere distinguish this from the bulk of other boutique properties I've seen in this region.

We have a special place in our hearts for Greece since we were married there, and we are always looking for new places to discover. There's no way I'm going to Crete without a four night stay here. This is absolutely gorgeous and that unbelievable view will knock your socks off at sunset, let me assure you.

This boutique hotel tops my list for several reasons. In addition to complimentary use of the Elixir Spa (that's right, f-r-e-e), guests in villas enjoy their very own infinity pool with outstanding views of the Mediterranean. Settled. Villa is a must. Opa!

Get the full scoop here on Kiwi Collection.

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June 21, 2011

Things are heating up!

The sun is setting on the first day of summer and I feel so incredibly grateful. I wanted to document this lovely little moment with you. Summer 2011: Bring. It. On. We are ready for you.

Slammin' photo above from Sri Panwa in Phuket. How's that for a sunset, folks?

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June 16, 2011

The Recipe...

Serve up a little sexy this weekend with a few special elements. First. let's set the tone for intrigue and leisure with the Mr. & Mrs. Smith 16-track compilation disc. The right vibe, of course, deserves the right fashion. Laze about in this one-shoulder lace-up bathing suit from Shimmi. Comfort and appeal wrapped in one beautiful blue package. Top it off with a pair of never-fail Gucci frames. The lenses are just dark enough for you to pick and choose who you allow to get your attention.

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June 13, 2011

Today's Journey... Luxurious Cannes

Nestled in the idyllic Mediterranean town of Théoule-sur-mer, Tiara Yaktsa Cannes is the epitome of European luxury. Escape the crowds at this private retreat or enjoy the vibrant social scene of Cannes and Saint-Tropez. This incredible boutique hotel is everything a you could want from a Côte d'azur getaway. Movie star glamour, intoxicating fragrances wafting from the manicured gardens on the grounds, exquisite accommodations and that incomparable view of the deep-blue sea conspire to lure you to extend stay...indefinitely. Come. Relax. Dream of a life more fabulous. It does indeed exist here.

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Ailleurs...

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Honoring my wandering summer mind... expect the coming posts to all be escapist in nature. I'm celebrating summer (and my roaming mind) by breaking free from my routine. driving different routes, walking in different neighborhood and doing things that are a bit unexpected. All of this, of course, is my attempt to create a mental diversion until vacation time comes around. Ailleurs means "someplace else" in French. And that's exactly where my wanderlusting soul is this month... someplace else. For now, put on your pretty sandals, favorite sunglasses and bottle of water. We're headed on a journey... destination unknown.

{images via Louis Vuitton's Summer 2011 Ailleurs collection @ LouisVuitton.com}

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June 10, 2011

Weekend Wanderlust...

Any guesses about what's on my mind these days? I think not. Notice what you don't see: no laptops, no iphones, to iPads, no televisions, no crowds, no tourists... just unabated bliss.

Here's to us all getting the restoration we need this weekend. Happy lounging!

Featured: W Retreat Koh Samui, The Tides Zihuatanejo, Live Aqua Cancun

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Destination Unknown

Too much work is bad for a Venti girl. I'm plotting my escape day and night. The longer I'm forced to delay the satisfaction of a much-needed vacation, the more drastic my desired adventure. Right now I'd like to be here... at this undisclosed location with no one in sight. Doesn't this look amazing?

The ideal place to shut out all distractions and find that still, small voice inside (I suspect it's shouting right now). For all I know this resort is in Santa Barbara, but my mind wants to believe it's in some far-flung exotic locale like Mozambique. Regardless, I want to be there. Now. With my eyes closed and my freshly painted toes in the cool waters of the swimming pool, a solicitous staff indulging my every whim. Yes, I'm due for some first-class spoiling right now. And this is just the spot to do it. Wherever it may be.

To prove my commitment, I've even packed my imaginary suitcase. If you know the spot, do share... we have the opportunity to win a 5-night stay there. I'll even help you pack your suitcase.

Spotted: Kiwi Collection "wow" pick, Pucci Silk Kaftan, Musa Jeweled Sandals, Melissa Odabash Bikini, Gucci Oversized Sunglasses

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May 31, 2011

Have a Fête

Is it just me. or are you ready to turn your patio into a perpetual party? Must be the heat and the sounds of people playing in their pools. Go ahead, invite them all over. Here are a few effortlessly stylish ways to keep your cool. 1. Silk Shantung "Lisa" apron, 2. 101 Mojitos & Other Muddled Drinks, 3. Lucite Campaign table

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May 26, 2011

What It Takes to Succeed

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Every day I have conversations with friends, colleagues and strangers who share that they dream of this or want that or hope for xyz. The thing is, do they? I'm not seeing much to show that they have a passion for that dream or possess a plan for attainment.

Hope to lose 60 pounds? That Snackwell cookie dangling from your lips while surfing the web isn't helping. Want to live in a mansion that you own free and clear? I hope you're reading this from your smartphone as you rush off to your next big pitch meeting.

The point is, it takes a plan of action and... wait for it... ACTION to get what you want. Success doesn't just happen. You have to know exactly what you want. Me? I want that fat house, free and clear. I want optimal health & fitness. I want a successful design business. Do you know what I do? I get up early, I work out, I hone my craft and I go for it... each and every day. Working on my plan. Pursuing my dream. Chasing it. Crushing it. It takes motion, movement and some sacrifices.

For me that sacrifice is a little sleep, missed BravoTV etc. My TiVo box is filled with "when I have time I'll see it" shows and to be honest, I am having trouble finding time. When I'm not busy working I'm spending quality time with my daughter and my husband and our friends. They take priority over whatever Kelly and Ramona might be doing this season. (Bethenny, however, is in a league of her own. I make time for her. Watching Bethenny Ever After is like watching myself on a reality show. She's a bit much for other people, but I totally relate to her particular brand of crazy. She's a self-made woman. LOVE. HER.)

Am I there yet? Fortunately, no. I have much to do before I "arrive" where I'm headed. I'm enjoying the process of designing it, building it, dreaming it, working for it. And I'm going to get there. It's just how I'm wired. And the process of working for it and seeing it come to fruition by my own actions is readying me to appreciate my vision of success when I achieve it. But step one is having a specific vision of what you want and be willing to actually change your life to pursue it. Without that you're just drifting along hoping. And "hope" may be a pleasant concept, but it isn't getting you closer to that rockin' body next to the infinity pool overlooking the lapping waves. It isn't building your brand, your company or your bank account.

So... how about it? What is it that will compel you to get out of bed early tomorrow? Hire a trainer. Read a book. Set an alarm clock. Make 10 calls you've been putting off. Do what it takes to shake yourself out of that "someday" state and get moving.

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May 21, 2011

Drink in Life

This weekend... Read a book. Kiss someone you love. Give as many hugs as you can. Listen to a friend. Face the wind. Enjoy the sunshine. Savor every bite.

{image via Kirna Zabete}

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May 12, 2011

Dream House: Let's Go Outside

Still compiling my notes on the Venti Dream Home I find myself so caught up in the outside of the home that I'm reluctant to veer indoors. That's because I really need a strong relationship between indoors and outdoors in this home. An ebb and flow between the two. Sweeping views from the house, reflections of water sparkling on the ceiling. Multiple sets of arched French doors beckoning you in from the patio. If I sound like a broken record it's because this vision never changes. These images have been sourced from around the web, mainly on swanky SoCal properties.

What about you? Are you fine as long as your house is a sweet pad once you get indoors? Does location matter to you as much as the finished product? Do you crave that connection to the outdoor world, or are you perfectly content indoors? Spill it. I can't possibly be alone in my cravings.

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May 11, 2011

My Happy Place

Mariah who? Witness the glory that is the private closet of 'Housewife' Lisa Vanderpump. Her ~~home~~ estate at 50 Beverly Park is beyond words. Her closet? Beyond amazing. She's stashing more Chanel into that space than my nearest boutique. Not that she's lacking square footage or assets. Lisa, your dressing space is currently my happy place. As I sit staring at my to-do list and tight schedule i'm dreaming of your baby pink lambskin 2.55, your lime green Birkin (bold choice) and the promise that lies within that shoe department, er... section. Kudos to you, sister. Kudos.

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May 02, 2011

Venti Dream Home

Been working on a post for ages... someone requested I compile photos of my dream home. Well... this is no easy feat. Partly because my dream home is likely in Capri. Partly because it requires visualizing the home with ideal architecture with my own spin on the decor. But... to tease you (and to get some of it out of my head) I'm showing you a taste of what's to come. Starting with the outside and the location.

The inside of my future home will matter as much as the interior. The old saying is "location, location, location" and for me that spot is Southern California. I need a view of the Pacific. I don't want to live on the beach, but over it. Pacific Palisades comes to mind.

A fabulous pool with an even sweeter terrace that overlooks the sunset just seems dreamy and necessary. Entertaining should flow easily from indoors to out. The mix of nature and man-made excellence is obvious. Ballustrades, columns and an abundance of white surfaces bathed in the golden glow of that west coast sunshine. My sparking blue pool will be visible from most rooms of the house, as will the bougainvillea blossoms.

I've seen this home and it's view in my mind since I was very young. I'll know it when I walk inside. Arched doorwarys, gleaming floors and gloriously high ceilings.

And yes.. that's Nick & Jessica's old house up top. While the architecture is off for me I love the grandness of the back of the structure. It says "Look at me!, I'm fabulous!" and I sort of dig that. ;)

Although... Lisa Vanderpump's outdoor retreat would be ridiculously perfect. I'd just have to arch those doorwars and windows in my mind. (See more pix of it here.) Thank you, hooked on houses for feeding my addiction. You are the ideal enabler to my real estate stalking tendencies! I am now most certainly in trouble.

More to come on this... stay tuned.

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April 21, 2011

Amazing Grace

If this doesn't have you signing up for Lotte Berk classes nothing will. These astonishing photographs are but a select few from the Ballerina Project. Have a looksie, and get your pointe shoes on. I can't tell which I love more... the stunning and lithe dancer's physique or the beauty of New York City. A touch of both, perhaps.

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White Hot

Good Lord, please give me this kitchen. Is that Fortuny-patterned wallpaper behind the gas range? Yes, please. Give me some of that. Loving the contrast of those sexy black pendant lights as well. So out of place that they fit right in. Only tweak I'd make: not keen on the farm table extension for the barstools (seen better in bottom shot). But really, if you gifted me with this lovely space I'd find it quite difficult to complain. It's hard to form words when your jaw is lying on the floor. It's smokin' hot. Hmm... probably a poor choice of words on my part. But you get the point. Consider this my Easter wish.

{photos from lookbook on Elle Decor featuring Jenn-Air}

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April 10, 2011

Game, Set, Match!

Those following me on twitter know I'm obsessed with tennis. For my birthday I've asked Mr. Venti for private lessons and a club membership. I held a racket a tiny bit in high school but haven't been on a court for even a moment of seriousness in years. Suddenly it's the only thing I want to do. The skirts, the sunshine, focus - it all sounds dreamy. And really, have you ever seen a female tennis player with bad legs? I rest my case. So rather than spend my summer in the gym I plan to hit the courts.

Thanks to the Dallas Stylistas I now know that Lacoste is introducing a collection in collaboration with the dreamy Catherine Malandrino. Hit's just the right note, doesn't it?

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April 08, 2011

Happy Weekend!

This image sums up my week so well!

{image via CC Loves}

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April 02, 2011

Life's Little Treasures

As I surfed blogs this morning, leading here, there, down this rabbit hole and into the next I stumbled upon Kelly Wearstler's My Vibe, My Life. Hello, happiness. This shot say everything you need to know. It's the full integration of her life. Work & play. Glamour & grime (notice the heels and fabulous bracelet, thankyouverymuch). Family & business. It very much epitomizes my life. I hope this brings a bit of cheer to your Saturday and encourages you. Don't be afraid to mix it up. Don't focus on being so compartmentalized. It's your life. And if it's one incredibly over-blended hard-to-explain-to-family-and-friends-exactly-what-you-do kind of life - you're better for it. I do what I love and it enriches me. Dream it, do it. Don't fill up so much time in between wondering how any why and when.

Life is passing, baby, and you better jump in and get a bit messy. Have more fun. Stop limiting yourself with imaginary (yes, imaginary) boundaries and rules and barriers. They are anathema to creativity and true passionate success. LIVE YOUR LIFE the way you dream of living it. If you're waiting for permission from someone it will never happen. Your mission today? Go play! (thank you, DS for the link!)

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March 27, 2011

Beachy Keen

A short while ago I was invited to check out a brand new kind of car. If you've been reading for a while, you know I LOVE cars and have a particular affinity for convertibles. There's something about the idea of cruising down the coast, ragtop down, breeze in your hair and a smile on your face that encapsulates the Venti Life concept. Living every moment to the fullest and really embracing life. I think it's partially because driving a convertible requires full commitment on the part of the owner. A few things are certain: you will have messy, windblown hair. You will garner attention. You will have fun. It's guaranteed. Is it for everyone? Truthfully it's all about timing. At some point in your life I feel everyone must own a convertible. I'd have loved a convertible in high school. Now that I have a little one to incorporate into my daily life it's not the best time (even though I'd love the thrill of tooling around my little neighborhood running to and from the coffee shop and gym). But give me a few years and I'm in. Fully and completely in.

But back to this car. This one was a little different than most. First, it's an SUV convertible. Let that sink in for a moment. That's right. An SUV with the top down. Now I've got your attention. Next shocker, it's a Nissan. And it's as cute as it can be. Two doors, a slightly higher ride than a typical car, leather interior, 20" wheels, GPS, Sirius Radio - the works. In fact, every car comes fully loaded with all the bells and whistles (how's that for fabulous?). No thinking required. Just get in, push the button to open the top (no latches!) and you're off. It is truly a thing of beauty.

The invitation was simple... come down to the Omphoy Resort, drive the Nissan Murano CrossCabriolet, enjoy a fabulous lunch prepared by Michelle Bernstein at her oceanview restaurant in this swanky resort hotel (she is positively adorable in person, by the way) and go home. Simple enough. Let me assure you, they didn't need to ask me twice. I was on this like white on rice, baby.

What they didn't tell me is that I'd actually really dig the car. Nor did they tell me I'd be driving it on the stretch of land otherwise known as glorious Palm Beach (oceanfront mansions - oh yeah!). Hello, heaven on earth.

I went. I drove. I drooled. I returned. And now I know I must own a convertible a bit sooner than planned. And really, this one rocks. I also realized need to own some oceanfront property and should probably add in larger sunglasses to that "must get" list. This was Venti Living in every way. Carefree, fabulous, fun.

The entire trip from start to finish was flawless. I can't thank my gracious hosts enough. The room, the treatment, the amazing car, the hospitality - all top quality. The convertible had local residents gawking and commenting. It certainly drew stares and elicited much curiosity. In pretty metallic paints, this car is not for the shy among you, but it is for anyone looking to smile a bit wider and live a bit more joyfully. Two things everyone needs more of in life. Pre-order your smile maker here.

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March 06, 2011

Show Me Your Dallas

Since the move last fall, I've been slowly but surely discovering incredible areas throughout my new city. Truth be told, the "good stuff" isn't usually in a guidebook. Smart locals save that for themselves. Who can blame them? But I consider myself a local now, or at least a girl who plans to make Dallas her permanent home. So I want to know it all. I want to see it all. I want to experience it all.

Rather than spend a year or two in search of all that secret coolness throughout the Big D, I've decided to enlist the assistance of local experts. These are bloggers, designers and fun girls you already know and love. I've asked them to do one simple thing, "Show me your Dallas." This can be a tucked away fashion boutique, a legendary landmark or a simple taco stand down the street. It can be anything they wish.

It's my quest to discover more of the uniquely local places that are authentically "insider" Dallas. After all, this is their version of this great city and I want to empower them with the freedom to enlighten me. The ultimate goal is to get together, enjoy a little girl bonding and showcase some of the city's hidden gems along the way.

Stay tuned!

{image via ToryBurch.com}

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March 04, 2011

Life... Illustrated

Pretty doesn't begin to describe these amazing works by Illustrator Izak Zenou. Suffice it to say I am smitten! Discovered thanks to the Zoe Report. Love you, Rachel!

Have a lovely weekend everyone!

{all images copyright of Izak Zenou}

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February 27, 2011

Spring into Action

Growing up in coastal North Carolina & San Antonio I was spoiled by "climate" versus seasons. It rarely if ever snowed. Coats were more decorative than dire necessity. Summers were hot but never sweltering. In truth the weather was blissful and reliable. Hardly what most of the world experiences.Our time in St. Louis, on the other hand, offered the full spectrum of seasons. Colorful fall, delightful spring and the occasional beautiful snowfall.

Having returned to Texas I'm discovering that Dallas weather is a tempestuous mistress indeed. We were literally snowed in for four days leading up the the Super bowl. The unusual snow thawed in a single day once the sun came out on Saturday, leaving roads clear for the big day on Sunday. Fast forward to this weekend: high 70s. Fabulous? You bet! Predictable? Not a chance.

I ceremoniously packed up and stored all of my boots this week. (Bye-bye, knee-high leathers!) It's open-toe season for this Venti girl. Yesterday was peeptoe platform wedges and capris for me. While I still feel that February displaying on my calendar makes going the Full Monty (that is, flip flops or thong sandals) a bit premature, peeptoes are a nice compromise. A hint of toe without too much toe cleavage. And while every girl in town was getting pumiced and polished to prefection, I was facing a day with a packed calendar and a family ready for some quality time.

Never to fear, my emergency "fab feet for Franki" kit was near. In a pinch (and really, aren't we all functioning on over-packed schedule mode these days?) Fresh Brown Sugar Scrub will fool even the harshest critics until you can get into the salon (that would be today at noon for me, thankyouverymuch). It'll also have your legs looking better than you remembered possible. Double bonus. Top those pretty toes with a melony pink shade of OPI polish (a perennial beauty award winner for good reason), don some wedges and rush out the door.

While it's no fun to dash & go all of the time, I love having tricks like this up my sleve for days when you'd rather enjoy life outdoors than be a slave to a salon appointment. Spring is almost here ladies... book those appointments!

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February 04, 2011

Fragrance Alert: Jennifer Aniston

I can't recall ever buying a celebrity fragrance before... but this one is certainly worth a try. Jennifer Aniston is launching a new fragrance, inspired by her beachy Southern California lifestyle. If there's any vibe I wish to channel, it's the easy vibe of the gorgeous Pacific Coast. Alas, we'll all have to wait until the release of the fragrance in March. Available exclusively at Sephora.

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January 20, 2011

Dear winter,

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January 15, 2011

Feathering Your Nest

Nothing personalizes a room like art. It establishes your taste. It indicates your passions. It delights you. It intrigues you. It pleases you. With all of these great reasons to surround yourself with artwork I'm surprised so many of us don't. Affordability is no longer an excuse thanks to outlets like eBay and etsy where aspiring (read: sensibly priced) art can be found. In terms of judging good art from bad, the only thing that matters it speaks to you.

For many years my true art passion was sculpture and black & white photography. Lately, however, I feel so moved by color. I'm inspired to move to the canvas and fill my walls with pieces I create. I love charcoal sketches. I adore figure drawings. I love line art and fashion illustrations. If you can frame it, hand it or stretch it onto quality canvas I'm in heaven.And it's a skill I've let slide sue to work, interests, growing up, being busy... you name it.

As I surfed for fabulous images to illustrate my point (in more ways that one) I came across Tobi Fairley's 2011 goals. Amazing how similar hers were to mine. I've noticed all of my blogger/designer girlfriends are fiendishly working, building our brands, barely taking time to breathe. We are self-professed high achievers. We set goals and we accomplish them. We want it all and we are going for it. We're investing our hearts and souls into our work - our passion - but we're often losing that balance (or at the very least the sleep) we so desire.

This year I commit to spending more time pursuing my passions (creating art, making more time for photography and creating Blurb books from the best photos) and seizing the moment. The days flew by last year. I don't want that to happen in 2011. I want to be present. I want to be in the moment. More importantly, I want to document my life and adorn my walls with evidence of a life richly lived.

For me, art does this. Painting does this. Sketching delivers this. I'm away from the laptop. I'm in my "element" and I am in the zone. It puts me under somewhat of a spell and helps me tap into parts of my brain that I am often to busy to hear. Right now I need that kind of an outlet.

I've found that by stepping back for those moments to be in my own element I am actually more alive, more present and more engaged when I'm with others. It isn't a selfish act at all. In fact, it would be more selfish to not pursue those interests and tap into my true creativity.

If you've abandoned a passion of yours lately due to a busy schedule or mismanaged time, it's time. Write that book. Make those calls. Take that trip. Wherever you passion leads you - follow. Your work, your family and your friendships will all be enriched by the journey.

{images all via Suzanne Kasler's portfolio... she understands the power of art to transform a life and a space}

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